Nov 29, 2024
I once had a girlfriend who called me "predictable" as a compliment. I found the term downplayed my abilities as a provider--that the things i did was because im operating from some unknown script, not decisions based on shifting factors. I told her that its not a compliment, and she didn't understand.
After reading this article, it might be a clue to why she thought being called predictable was a good thing.